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Wednesday 11 August 2010

The Benefits of Ramadhan

BENEFITS OF RAMADHAN




Bulan Ramadhan merupakan bulan yang mempunyai banyak kelebihan. Ramadan is a month that has many advantages. Kedatangannya selepas dua bulan yang juga tidak kurang keistimewaannya iaitu Rejab dan Sya'ban. Coming after two months and who is not unusual that Rajab and Sha'ban. Bagi tujuan menyuburkan rasa tanggungjawab dan rasa ingin menambahkan ibadat kepada Allah sepanjang Ramadhan ini, di sini dibawa beberapa hadis yang menceritakan mengenai kelebihannya. For the purpose of nourishing a sense of responsibility and sense of devotion to Allah to increase during Ramadan is here, carrying a few Hadith which tells about the advantages.



1. 1. Abu Hurairah menyatakan : Telah bersabda Rasulullah SAW yang bermaksud : Apabila telah tibanya Ramadhan, dibuka pintu-pintu syurga dan ditutup segala pintu neraka dan diikat segala syaitan. Abu Huraira said: The Prophet said, which means: When was the arrival of Ramadan, the gates of heaven opened and closed the door of hell and the devil bound. -Hadis dikeluarkan oleh imam Bukhari, Muslim, Nasai'e, Ahmad dan Baihaqi- Issued by the priest-Hadith Bukhari, Muslim, Nasai'e, Ahmad and Sufism-



2. 2. Daripada Abu Hurairah daripada Rasulullah SAW telah bersabda yang bermaksud :Sesiapa yang berpuasa Ramadhan dengan penuh keimanan dan keikhlasan nescaya akan diampuninya segala dosanya yang telah lalu. Abu Huraira from the Prophet SAW said, which means: "Whoever fasted Ramadan with faith and sincerity would be diampuninya all sins of the past. - Diriwayat oleh imam Nasai'e, Ibn majah, Ibn Habban dan Baihaqi- - Nasai'e Diriwayat the priest, Ibn Majah, Ibn Habban and Sufism-



3. 3. Abu Hurairah telah berkata : Aku telah mendengar Rasulullah SAW bersabda tentang Ramadhan yang bermaksud : Sesiapa yang mendirikannya(Ramadhan) penuh keimanan dan keikhlasan diampunkan baginya apa dosanya yang telah lalu. Abu Huraira said: I heard the Prophet said about Ramadan, which means: He who mendirikannya (Ramadan) the full faith and sincerity, pardoned him all his sins of the past. - Hadis riwayat Bukhari, Muslim, Tarmizi, Abu Daud, Nasai'e,Malik,Ahmad dan Baihaqi- - Hadith narrated by Bukhari, Muslim, Tarmizi, Abu Daud, Nasai'e, Malik, Ahmad and Sufism-



4. 4. Daripada Abu Hurairah telah berkata: Rasullah SAW telah bersabda yang bermaksud : Sembahyang yang difardhukan kepada sembahyang yang sebelumnya merupakan penebus apa antara keduanya, dan Jumaat kepada Jumaat yang sebelumnya merupakan penebus apa antara keduanya, dan bulan kepada bulan(iaitu Ramadhan) merupakan kaffarah apa antara keduanya melainkan tiga golongan : Syirik kepada Allah, meninggalkan sunnah dan perjanjian (dilanggar). Abu Huraira said: Rasullah SAW has said that means: Prayer is the prayer of the previous difardhukan a ransom that between them, and Friday to Friday before a ransom that between them, and month to month (ie Ramadan) is what kind of them, but three groups: Shirk in Allah, to leave the Sunnah and agreement (broken). Telah berkata Abu Hurairah : Maka aku tahu perkara itu akan berlaku, maka aku bertanya: Wahai Rasulullah! Abu Hurairah said: "And I know things will happen, so I asked:" O Prophet! adapun syirik dengan Allah telah kami tahu, maka apakah perjanjian dan meninggalkan sunnah? But pleasing to God we know, what the agreement and leave the sunnah? Baginda SAW bersabda : Adapun perjanjian maka engkau membuat perjanjian dengan seorang lain dengan sumpah kemudian engkau melanggarinya maka engkau membunuhnya dengan pedang engkau, manakala meninggal sunnah maka keluar daripada jamaah(Islam).-Hadis riwayat Ahmad, Al-Hakim, dan Baihaqi- Prophet SAW said: "As the agreement you enter into an agreement with another person on oath and then you melanggarinya have you killed with the sword for you, while the sunnah then passed out of the midst (of Islam) .- Hadith narrated by Ahmad, Al-Hakim, and Sufism,



5. 5. Daripada Abi Soleh Az-zayyat bahawa dia telah mendengar Abu Hurairah berkata: Rassullah SAW telah bersabda yang bermaksud : Setiap amalan anak Adam baginya melainklan puasa maka ia untukKu dan Aku akan membalasnya. From Abu Salih Az-zayyat that he had heard Abu Huraira said: Rassullah SAW has said that means: The practice of Adam which he melainklan fast for me and I will repay. Dan puasa adalah perisai, maka apabila seseorang berada pada hari puasa maka dia dilarang menghampiri(bercumbu) pada hari itu dan tidak meninggikan suara.Sekiranya dia dihina atau diserang maka dia berkata : Sesungguhnya aku berpuasa demi Tuhan yang mana diri nabi Muhammad ditanganNya maka perubahan bau mulut orang berpuasa lebih harum di sisi Allah pada hari qiamat daripada bau kasturi, dan bagi orang berpuasa dua kegembiraan yang mana dia bergembira dengan keduanya apabila berbuka dia bergembira dengan waktu berbukanya dan apabila bertemu Tuhannya dia gembira dengan puasanya. And fasting is a shield, but when someone is on the fast approaching he is prohibited (bercumbu) on that day and did not raise suara.Sekiranya insulted or attacked him and he said: "I am fasting for the Lord of the prophet Muhammad himself ditanganNya the smell changes mouth of the fasting is more fragrant to Allah on the Last Day of the smell of musk, and for the fast double happiness for which he rejoiced with them when he is happy to break berbukanya time and when he meets his Lord, pleased with the fast. -Hadis riwayat imam Bukhari, Muslim, Nasai'e, Ahmad, Ibn Khuzaimah, Ibn Habban dan Baihaqi- -Hadith narrated by imam Bukhari, Muslim, Nasai'e, Ahmad, Ibn Khuzaimah, and Sufism, Ibn Habban



 DESCRIPTION of HADITHS



1. 1. Semua hadis menceritakan betapa besarnya kelebihan bulan Ramadhan untuk kita sama-sama menghidupkannya dengan segala amalan sunnah. All the hadith tells how great advantage for us this month together with the switch sunnah practices.



2. 2. Pintu syurga dibuka sepanjang Ramadhan, manakala pintu neraka pula ditutup. The Gates of heaven open during Ramadan, while the fire door is closed. Ini menggambarkan bagaimana Allah begitu mengasihani hambaNya yang taat beribadat dan menurut segala perintahNya. It describes how God's mercy on His servants who obey and serve Him according to His counsel.



3. 3. Syaitan diikat sepanjang bulan Ramadhan agar kita dapat menunaikan segala ibadat dengan penuh keikhlasan. Satan was bound during the month of Ramadan so that we can perform all rituals with sincerity. Tetapi kita perlu ingat bahawa kawan syaitan yang berada pada diri kita iaitu nafsu akan menggantikan tugas syaitan jika kita lalai. But we must remember that friends are the ones who desire to be ourselves that if we replace the default ones work.



4. 4. Pentingnya keikhlasan dan keimanan kita dalam menunaikan ibadat. The importance of sincerity and our faith in the discharge chamber.



5. 5. Puasa mampu menjadi perisai diri daripada terjebak ke lembah maksiat, begitu juga ia mampu menghapuskan segala dosa-dosa yang lepas jika kita benar-benar bertaubat. Fasting can be stuck to shield themselves from the valley of sin, so also it can remove all the sins of the past if we truly repent.



6. 6. Kita mesti menghidupkan sunnah yang mana yang paling besar ialah berada dalam jemaah Islam terutama di dalam mengembalikan semula khilafah Islamiah yang telah lama dihancurkan iaitu pada 1924. We must revive the Sunnah of the most significant of which is located in a Muslim pilgrims, especially in restoring the Islamic caliphate that has been destroyed that in 1924.



7. 7. Jauhkan daripada syirik pada Allah sama ada berbentuk perbuatan, niat ataupun percakapan. Keep away from pleasing to God either form of act, intent or speech. Kita mesti mematuhi segala perjanjian yang dibuat selagi tidak melanggar hukum syarak. We must abide by all agreements made as long as does not violate Islamic law.



8. 8. Kita mesti berpuasa pada semua anggota bukannya pada makan dan minum sahaja. We must be fast on all members not to eat and drink only.



9. 9. Bau mulut orang berpuasa lebih harum daripada bauan kasturi. Bad breath of fasting more fragrant than musk.



10. 10. Orang berpuasa akan mengecapi dua kegembiraan iaitu ketika berbuka dan apabila bertemu Allah kelak. People will enjoy two fast break and the joy of God when they meet later.



11. 11. Di dalam menunaikan ibadat puasa kita mesti banyak bersabar dan jangan suka berbual kosong apatah meninggikan suara apabila bercakap. In fasting we must perform a lot of patience and do not like empty talk let alone raise a voice when speaking.



Biografi Biography



1. 1. Kitab Fadhailul Awqat oleh imam Al-Baihaqi,ditahqiq oleh Adnan Abdul Rahman MajidAl-Qaisi,Maktabah Al-Mnarah,Makkah. Book by priests Fadhailul Awqat Al-Sufism, ditahqiq by Adnan Abdul Rahman MajidAl-Qaisi, Maktabah Al-Mnarah, Makkah.



2. 2. Fathul Bari syarah sohih Bukhari oleh Ibn Hajar Al-'Asqalani Fathul Bari syarah sohih Bukhari by Ibn Hajar Al-'Asqalani



3. 3. Syarah sohih Muslim oleh imam An-Nawawi. Syarah sohih Muslim by priest An-Nawawi.

Tuesday 10 August 2010

What is the meaning of love????

Most people who claim to love someone don’t really love them, because they don’t know what love actually is.





What is love NOT?


Possessiveness is not love

Jealousy is not love

Lust is not love

Fear is not love

Keeping people all to yourself is not love

Expecting something from someone is not love



Real love is unconditional. All other “forms” of love are not really love. Most parents and kids don’t love each other, most people in relationships don’t love each other, most people on the planet never experience unconditional love in their entire lives… or at least it sure looks that way.



To love someone unconditionally means that you love the person exactly as they are, exactly as they were before, and exactly as they will be in the future – because people change all the time, so if you love the person, you will love them even if they become something you disagree with. How many parents can say that about their kids? How many people can say that about their “lover”? Love is not about you or your pleasure or your amusement. It’s not about what you get out of it or what the other person can give to you. It’s not about having a trophy you can show off with and tell people “This is *MY* girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband/son/daughter/whatever”. You do not “own” anyone. It’s not about you feeling ‘proud’ to be with someone who always agrees with everything you say and do and never does anything you disagree with. Unconditional love means that the person can just live their life exactly as they choose and you will always be there for them no matter what.



So, how does unconditional love fit in with relationships and marriage and sex and all that stuff the whole world keeps going crazy over? It doesn’t, really. It doesn’t “fit” in anywhere. Relationships are like trying to put love into a box and keep it there, except love is infinitely sized, and the box is… well, there is no box large enough. And a normal, conventional marriage is quite possibly the worst possible way to show someone how much you love them.



Unconditional love is more of a spiritual thing. It’s not bound by physical things, like blood relations and the desire to procreate. It has nothing whatsoever to do with sex. Most people are in relationships because they’re horny and/or lonely, even if they genuinely think they love the other person. But if the person they “love” suddenly lost their “equipment” for whatever reason, would they still want to be with that person? Would they get jealous if the person they “love” wanted to spend time with other people as well? Relationships based on needs are not unconditional.



In order to truly understand love, you must first forget everything you have ever learned about it from society and anyone else (including what I just said). You are the only person who can tell you what love is. The only reason I’m writing all this stuff is because people always try to fit “love” in with things like dating, relationships and marriage and all that. You can’t make any sense of it if you keep doing that. You have to get rid of everything you think you know first.

Thursday 5 August 2010

Find your perfect match!!!!

Erin Green and Marni Sky understand the importance of a great business match. When the two entrepreneurs were introduced by a mutual friend, “we connected really well,” Green says.

The women, who are now business partners, quickly discovered they both had backgrounds in marketing. (Sky had worked at several large agencies with accounts like American Express while Green had worked for Lululemon Athletica Inc.). Both had the same work ethic, the same vision for a new business and soon, the ability to finish each other’s sentences. “We just had a spark from the get-go in terms of our,” – Green says – “chemistry,” Sky finishes. Their business, Maven – Business Matchmakers, which launched on June 1st, is built on the premise that “people do better work when they connect on a personal level,” Sky says. “There is better teamwork.”


Maven matches small businesses with highly skilled experts who can take a business to the next level. Maven’s network of professionals features freelance consultants and boutique agencies in Toronto that specialize in a variety of fields including public relations, human resources, distribution, capital funding, and IT system management. Meeting with Green and Sky doesn’t cost a small business anything. Maven earns revenue by taking a cut from the vendor side but only if a deal happens. “It’s a win-win for our clients because it costs them nothing to tap into our network but for the vendors, it’s a win-win too because they don’t have to pay us unless they actually get a job,” Sky says. When it comes to deciding which experts will be included in Maven’s network, Green and Sky use a rigorous screening process, which includes gathering testimonials. So far, the network consists of about 100 experts, with half a dozen in each category. With Maven, small businesses and startups get expert advice without needing to hire a full-time employee. “This way they get to stay lean. Our people parachute in and parachute out,” Green says. And businesses don’t need to spend a lengthy amount of time searching for the right expert. Maven takes care of the search for them. The process begins with a free consultation where a client meets with Green and Sky. “We help them streamline and prioritize their needs,” Sky says. “Most small businesses need anywhere from three to five areas massaged and that’s where we tap into our network and see who would be a great fit,” Green says.